So let's do it!
The book I'm recommending is For the Love of Our Husbands by Darby Dugger. I'm recommending it for two reasons:
- It's a great book! For reals.
- Darby's my pal. In real life!
And, since Darby's so super-duper, she's letting me give away a copy of the book to one lucky reader! What can I say? It's good to have an in with the author. To enter, you need to leave a comment telling me something you want to start praying about for your husband. For additional entries:
- Subscribe to The Lazy Christian via e-mail, Google, or Networked Blogs, and leave a comment telling me you did so (or that you already do). All of those options are on the right-hand sidebar.
- Like For the Love of Our Husbands on Facebook, and leave a comment telling me you did so.
- Like The Lazy Christian on Facebook, and leave a comment telling me you did so.
- Follow @LazyChristian on Twitter, and leave a comment telling me you did so.
That's as many as five entries for this awesome book! I'll announce the winner on Tuesday, July 12, so there's a whole week to get your entries in.
If you like what you read (which I'm sure you will!), head on over to the CrossBooks store and pick up your copy of For the Love of Our Husbands, available in softcover or hardcover. You'll learn how to be a prayer warrior for your darling husband!
A few weeks ago when our family was on vacation, the Lord taught me a powerful lesson. While we were driving through the night, Jason pulled over at 2:30 a.m. and asked if I would drive for a while because he was getting sleepy. I agreed, we hit the road, and Jason fell asleep quickly. I didn’t tell him at the time, but I was freaking out. We were in the mountains of North Carolina where it was not only dark, but also very rainy. Because we had rented a car, I found myself in an SUV that I had never driven before. It was packed so full that I couldn’t even see out the rear-view mirror. I was trying to navigate my way along the unfamiliar, winding roads while learning where certain controls (such as the wipers and headlights) were located on the car.
My knuckles were white as my eyes darted from the side mirrors, to the road, to the GPS, and then to my family. I think a large part of my fear was the fact that my beloved husband, precious daughter, and wonderful little dog were all sleeping peacefully in the car. I felt so much stress and pressure knowing that their safety— indeed, their very lives—were in my hands. Each decision I made, each turn I took, led my family somewhere, and I prayed that I wouldn’t make any costly mistakes. While talking to Jesus along the road, I heard Him speak into my heart. He shared with me that what I was experiencing at that moment is what Jason experiences all the time as the leader of our home. Wow! I contemplated that for several days, and then finally asked Jason if that truly is how he feels. His response was an immediate, “Yes, all the time. Constantly.”
His response was quite sobering for me. You see, if I were asked, I would admit that I view myself as dancing through life. And while I may have stressful times and feel outside pressures, it certainly isn’t a continual burden, and it is nothing in comparison to the weight of knowing that the well-being of my entire family rests on my shoulders. My challenge is to remember that valuable experience and do whatever I can to help Jason carry the weight. Since he is the provider and protector of the family, I can’t remove all the pressure from him. I can, however, come alongside him and serve as his partner, ready to help him in
whatever capacity he needs, using my words to build him up and thank him for all he does.
Precious Lord, I pray that my eyes would be open to the pressures that my husband experiences on a daily basis. Encourage me to support him in whatever capacity he needs. I pray that I would never make his job as provider and protector harder than it already is, but that I would be mindful of his sense of responsibility and look for ways to build him up. In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen.
For the Love of My Husband
Father God, in the book of Deuteronomy, You told Moses to encourage Joshua so that he would be able to lead the Israelites into the Promised Land. In the same way that You called Moses to speak into Joshua’s life, I pray that You would bring someone into my husband’s life who would encourage and strengthen him to do great things. You tell us several times in Your Word that we are to encourage each other daily (Hebrews 3:13, 1 Thessalonians 5:11), and I pray that You would use me and others to encourage my husband and speak truth into his life. I pray that he will receive affirmation from several different people, praising him for the job he is doing in both his family life and in his career. May my husband always strive to please You and receive Your affirmation. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.